Oh, sweet Lucy.
I know. It's so so so hard being three.
No one understands what you are trying to say, and that makes you mad. It causes you to talk louder (and really close to Mommy's face) and gesture wildly.
And then Mama STILL doesn't get what you are saying. And that? Makes you fusstawated, as you say.
It's hard having to choose a different princess dress to wear every day. And then choosing the accessories too? Exhausting.
It's horrible when you try to kiss your sisters but decide to lick their faces instead. And then they scream!
The humanity.
Mommy won't let you brush your teeth 7 times a day for an hour each time, even though you ask repeatedly. And she says "No Ma'am!!!" when you suck the toothpaste right out of the tube.
She doesn't let you have cake for breakfast or yayyipops in bed.
Sigh.
It's horrible.
Your sisters are always up in your business, your mommy won't let you use the grown up scissors. You're not allowed to pull Cate's hair. Your daddy says "No No! Softer!" when you chunk things at him as hard as you can.
Your favorite song is "I yike fooooood" "I yike chicken " "I yike pizza" "I yike freeeee fries" and your mean mommy won't give you those things for every meal.
Double sigh.
Is it any wonder you are perturbed?
I think not.
Ahahahahaha... oh sweet Lucy your little face just cracks me up! I have seen that look on my three yr old granddaughters face for very much the same reasons :)
Posted by: SammyD | 01/08/2014 at 02:54 AM
Ha! She has such personality. What a gorgeous girl :)
Posted by: Helen | 01/08/2014 at 03:13 AM
Shes a pill for sure! Happy Wednesday, Helen!
Posted by: Stephanie Howell | 01/08/2014 at 03:14 AM
You've made me laugh. She's absolutely adorable, I've no idea how you ever say no to her!
Posted by: CJ | 01/08/2014 at 03:51 AM
Its a daily struggle!
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Posted by: Stephanie Howell | 01/08/2014 at 03:56 AM
Bahahaha. Little stinkers!
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Posted by: Stephanie Howell | 01/08/2014 at 03:56 AM
What a face! Adorable! Poor little princess...
Posted by: MichelleB | 01/08/2014 at 04:21 AM
I know. Bless her poor little heart.
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Posted by: Stephanie Howell | 01/08/2014 at 04:49 AM
Oh my gosh - adorable all around!
Posted by: Jennifer | 01/08/2014 at 05:23 AM
thank you! xo
Posted by: Stephanie Howell | 01/08/2014 at 05:24 AM
I absolutely adore this photo! It pretty much sums up how I've been feeling the last three months! Maybe I'll print it to hang on my wall to remind myself that I'm not alone in the "life isn't fair" department. We princesses have to stick together. Bahahaha! Love the little bits and pieces of Miss Lucy. Oh, and also? My favorite song is "I yike fooooood" too! ;)
Posted by: Gayle W. | 01/08/2014 at 05:26 AM
Bahahaah! She sings it in this wobbly little voice that is hilaaaarious.
If you print it and tack it up share a picture! I think this picture could be a greeting card. HA!
Posted by: Stephanie Howell | 01/08/2014 at 05:27 AM
Substitute choosing a "Thomas shirt" for a princess dress each day and you have painted a pretty accurate picture of my 2 year old (to be 3 in March), Ben. 3 is the new 2, as they say. :)
Posted by: Cathie | 01/08/2014 at 05:35 AM
they are the BEST and CUTEST...but also the biggest STINKERS! hahaha!
Posted by: Stephanie Howell | 01/08/2014 at 05:36 AM
LOL!!!! I'm dying here and trying not to laugh as I'm feeding the little guy. LOL. Now I'm thinking about what he must be thinking - "what do you mean there are only TWO boobs!?!? SERIOUSLY!?!?"
Posted by: Leigh Erin | 01/08/2014 at 06:10 AM
HOW DARE YOU ONLY HAVE TWO BREASTS???
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Posted by: Stephanie Howell | 01/08/2014 at 06:16 AM
Awesome capture. Three is very tough ;)
Posted by: KristynG | 01/08/2014 at 06:18 AM
Xoxoxo
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Posted by: Stephanie Howell | 01/08/2014 at 06:21 AM
Oh heavens you made me laugh so hard I snorted coffee thru the nose...
Posted by: Joy | 01/08/2014 at 07:28 AM
Oh sooooo cute! I swear - you always make my ovaries hurt and ALMOST want to have another baby LOL. I'll just live vicariously through you ;)
Posted by: Jenny A | 01/08/2014 at 07:31 AM
Three is a magic age. Your girls and your stories of them remind me of those times, fondly.
Posted by: Nikki M | 01/08/2014 at 07:35 AM
Atta girl!!!!
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Posted by: Stephanie Howell | 01/08/2014 at 07:50 AM
Its my absolute favorite!
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Posted by: Stephanie Howell | 01/08/2014 at 07:51 AM
Poor Lucy. I know how she feels! LOL (that's an awesome picture!)
Posted by: Theresa | 01/08/2014 at 08:05 AM
Life it tough for a 3 year old. Thanks for the laugh and smile this morning.
Posted by: Ann | 01/08/2014 at 08:06 AM
My ovaries still hurt sometimes too. I ignore them. HA!
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Posted by: Stephanie Howell | 01/08/2014 at 08:08 AM
So so sooooo tough. Xoxoxo
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Posted by: Stephanie Howell | 01/08/2014 at 08:25 AM
This is AWESOME!!! So wonderful that you documented this for her to see when she gets older. And the photo is just precious. She is absolutely adorable and yes, mommy - it is tough being three! ;)
Posted by: AnitaP | 01/08/2014 at 08:33 AM
Im so glad I was able to capture it too!!
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Posted by: Stephanie Howell | 01/08/2014 at 08:40 AM
What a sweet picture of a sweet little girl. I'm starting to live some of these dramatic moments with my grand-daughter. She is turning 2 next week. Love the post made me smile and laugh out loud, thanks :)
Posted by: Nicole | 01/08/2014 at 09:30 AM
So glad to hear it. Happy Wednesday!
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Posted by: Stephanie Howell | 01/08/2014 at 09:37 AM
What a beautiful post, Stephanie! That photo is such a story and your sweet words add so much. Hugs to little Lucy! And hugs to the Mom who keeps her smiling, too!
Posted by: Jingle | 01/08/2014 at 09:39 AM
This is such a great picture. Please save it forever. And ever.
Poor girl... :)
Posted by: mara | 01/08/2014 at 09:44 AM
Oh My Goodness. How I soooooo love your journaling to go with this picture!!! Now turn it into a scrapbook page for her to read in 20 years- and use the journaling from your blog. She'll LOVE it someday!
Posted by: Kelley | 01/08/2014 at 10:02 AM
Perfect. Adding it to my mental to scrap list!!!xoxo
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Posted by: Stephanie Howell | 01/08/2014 at 10:05 AM
So so funny!!!!
LOVE this Ode to Lucy. It is tough being 3!
Posted by: Miriam Prantner | 01/08/2014 at 10:12 AM
Bless her sweet little heart. ;)
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Posted by: Stephanie Howell | 01/08/2014 at 10:13 AM
Soooo adorable! Your girls are so stinkin' adorable! You are awesome at capturing their personalities in your photos! tfs
Posted by: Debbie Piercey | 01/08/2014 at 10:19 AM
TOTALLY using this one in her senior yearbook!!! :)
Posted by: Stephanie Howell | 01/08/2014 at 10:25 AM
Thank you so much, Debbie!
Posted by: Stephanie Howell | 01/08/2014 at 10:25 AM
Thank you so much for your sweet words!
Posted by: Stephanie Howell | 01/08/2014 at 10:25 AM
You are such a good writer! The stories of your girls need to be a book!! Love the look & the story behind it. :)
Posted by: becky d. | 01/08/2014 at 10:35 AM
Poor baby! She is adorable!
Posted by: Pat Cloud | 01/08/2014 at 10:38 AM
Thanks for the chuckle. I needed it. :)
Posted by: Christine Campbell | 01/08/2014 at 10:42 AM
Thank you! Big hugs to you too!
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Posted by: Stephanie Howell | 01/08/2014 at 10:48 AM
Thank you so much!
Posted by: Stephanie Howell | 01/08/2014 at 10:51 AM
I almost didn't survive the 3's with my now 15 year old!!
Posted by: marianne b | 01/08/2014 at 10:51 AM
I absolutely LOVE this post! A little peek into the mind of a three year old! I needed this today! Thank you!!!
Posted by: Emily | 01/08/2014 at 10:57 AM
Thank you!!!
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Posted by: Stephanie Howell | 01/08/2014 at 11:03 AM
So fun! (because I don't have the daily "No" frustration) We are having an awful time with understanding our 3 yr old granddaughter. Think life will be less frustrating when the speech hassles go away.
Posted by: JillT | 01/08/2014 at 11:03 AM
Love this. Rings true. Also, so adorable in, I'm sure, a frustrating way :)
Posted by: abbeyviolet | 01/08/2014 at 11:23 AM
LMAO! this photo is completely priceless! these end up being some of my favorite photos of my own kids cause they are so raw and honest. I sure hope lucy is able to continue on...such a rough like :D
Posted by: kristy c. | 01/08/2014 at 11:42 AM
Love...love...love this!
Posted by: Tinka | 01/08/2014 at 12:04 PM
Probably one of my favorite posts!!!
Posted by: krys72599 | 01/08/2014 at 12:13 PM
So using it for her senior yearbook. Bahahha
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Posted by: Stephanie Howell | 01/08/2014 at 12:24 PM
Love it!
Posted by: Jessica | 01/08/2014 at 12:52 PM
LOL, thanks for sharing! Love the details with the "sympathy" you show her. :)
Posted by: young | 01/08/2014 at 01:06 PM
The 'Pouting Princess' was the caption that popped into my mind as this picture came up. So sweet..so love this...and so understand where you are! Went over this hurdle just a few short years ago myself with my pouting princess! Wine will get you through or fog the edginess of it at the very least!
Posted by: Julie McD | 01/08/2014 at 01:11 PM
I love this. So reminds me of my 2 year old granddaughter. She is a princess too and it is exhausting. Sometimes she changes outfits 4 times a day! Your family is great! I have four children also and would not change anything for the world. Thank you for blogging Stephanie and for being courageous.
Posted by: Jackie | 01/08/2014 at 01:23 PM
oh, this one made me giggle. so cute. so stinkery. so familiar to me. :) three was a tougher age for me than two with all of mine...but such an adorable age at the same time, you can't help but turn your face and smile!
Posted by: Kimber-Leigh | 01/08/2014 at 01:32 PM
Oh sweet Princess Lucy, I'm sorry you're fusstatawated. Life will get better in the kingdom of pink, I'm sure. Stephanie I knew there must be a sweet story to go with this stunning photo.
Posted by: ginny | 01/08/2014 at 01:44 PM
Add some pretty patterned paper, maybe a doily and some sequins - BAM! scrapbook page done. And three is tough. Awesome for sure, but tough. I kind of miss it.
Posted by: Alison | 01/08/2014 at 01:48 PM
This is too adorable and perfectly sums up the terrible threes! Awesome post :)
Posted by: Louisa | 01/08/2014 at 02:04 PM
Oh Man! This is awesome. Can Lucy come to my house and teach my two older boys to spend more time brushing their teeth. I can't seem to keep them in there for more than a minute. Dental hygiene and showering are not on their lists of important things to do. UGhhhh!
I posted a Wordless-ish Wednesday of our little one today. I love posting on Wednesday's. I don't pressure myself to be creative or witty. I just post a fun picture with a few thoughts. http://www.wemartins.blogspot.com/2014/01/wordless-ish-wednesday.html
Posted by: Olivia Martin | 01/08/2014 at 03:17 PM
So cute! Little stinker! :) My almost 3 year old has similar problems. LOL Except his also often include not being able to carry as many cars at one time as he wants!
Posted by: Monica | 01/08/2014 at 03:23 PM
My three year old niece could so relate. Thanks for sharing. Your writing is one of the reasons I love your blog.
Posted by: sherried | 01/08/2014 at 03:30 PM
She is so super-adorable...but you know that already :P
Posted by: clippergirl | 01/08/2014 at 04:06 PM
Almost every picture of my son at 3 years old: crying.
Posted by: Sonya R | 01/08/2014 at 04:10 PM
Oh, I love this photo and the words explain it perfectly! I remember those frustrations with my girls
Posted by: Deb | 01/08/2014 at 04:32 PM
I'm pretty sure he thinks there should at least be a third. Lol
Posted by: Leigh Erin | 01/08/2014 at 04:47 PM
I saw this photo on IG and it made me crack up then! You're words are just perfect with it. You capture three year old stubbornness very well! She looks such a sweetie!
Posted by: Abi | 01/08/2014 at 05:31 PM
You are so funny! I love the post and the picture!
Posted by: grace | 01/08/2014 at 05:45 PM
so completely and totally precious!! you made me laugh out loud for realsies with today's blog :)
Posted by: Danielle Taylor | 01/08/2014 at 07:25 PM
Lucy is so cute and funny....adorable little one for sure!!!
Posted by: Carolyn Hawkins | 01/08/2014 at 07:26 PM
Hi Stephanie
I read your every post but I seldom comment. This post really makes me laugh, Lucy is so adorable!
thank you for sharing! :)
Have a great year in Italy
Posted by: PJ | 01/08/2014 at 08:06 PM
Funniest post ever!!!
Victoria :)
Posted by: Victoria | 01/08/2014 at 08:16 PM
Didn't Sadie lick people too? I loved reading this....
The toothpaste battle made me think of Ramona Q squeezing a whole tube of toothpaste into the sink....you have to read Ramona to your girls!
Posted by: Kristine | 01/08/2014 at 08:29 PM
Oh my goodness....this is one of the sweetest things I have EVER read and I am no spring chicken LOL....I have forwarded it to everyone and added a link to my facebook page in case anyone needed a smile! I always tell my grandkids that it is tuff being a kid but you said it better than I EVER will...thanks sooo much for the smile since this was a pretty cra... day LOL. Spent 3 hours getting my passport so I can go to London, Paris, and Rome in March....I have this fantasy that we will get to meet LOL!
Posted by: Patricia | 01/08/2014 at 08:45 PM
Hilarious.
Posted by: Erin R. | 01/08/2014 at 09:46 PM
Wow- Thank you so much!
Posted by: Stephanie Howell | 01/09/2014 at 12:05 AM
I agree. That's why I have a hard time telling her no! :)
Posted by: Stephanie Howell | 01/09/2014 at 12:06 AM
You are welcome, friend. Hope the rest of your week is happy and bright. xo
Posted by: Stephanie Howell | 01/09/2014 at 12:06 AM
oh.my. this worries me. HA!
Posted by: Stephanie Howell | 01/09/2014 at 12:06 AM
You are welcome! Thank you for your sweet comment!
Posted by: Stephanie Howell | 01/09/2014 at 12:06 AM
They try SO hard to express themselves and get so dang mad!!!
Posted by: Stephanie Howell | 01/09/2014 at 12:07 AM
HA! 99 percent wonderful 1 percent frustrating. Honestly. I think b/c I've already done it twice before...it doesn't ruffle me!
Posted by: Stephanie Howell | 01/09/2014 at 12:07 AM
I agree. Bless her.
Posted by: Stephanie Howell | 01/09/2014 at 12:08 AM
Thank you, Tinka!
Posted by: Stephanie Howell | 01/09/2014 at 12:08 AM
Awwww...thank you so much!
Posted by: Stephanie Howell | 01/09/2014 at 12:08 AM
Thank you, sweet girl!
Posted by: Stephanie Howell | 01/09/2014 at 12:08 AM
Bahahaha!
Posted by: Stephanie Howell | 01/09/2014 at 12:08 AM
Yes!! I titled it "perturbed princess" on Instagram!!! :)
Posted by: Stephanie Howell | 01/09/2014 at 12:09 AM
Oh, Jackie...thank you so much. What a kind comment!
Posted by: Stephanie Howell | 01/09/2014 at 12:09 AM
It can SO be tough. But so by FAR my favorite. They are too darn cute at 3!
Posted by: Stephanie Howell | 01/09/2014 at 12:09 AM
Definitely. Always a story!!!
Posted by: Stephanie Howell | 01/09/2014 at 12:10 AM
YES! Sounds perfect!
Posted by: Stephanie Howell | 01/09/2014 at 12:10 AM
Thank you Louisa! xo
Posted by: Stephanie Howell | 01/09/2014 at 12:10 AM
Yes! She's on her way and packed 3 princess dresses and one swimsuit (her other favorite thing to wear all day)!
Posted by: Stephanie Howell | 01/09/2014 at 12:10 AM
POOR LITTLE THING!!!
Posted by: Stephanie Howell | 01/09/2014 at 12:11 AM
Thank you so much. YOU GUYS are one of the main reasons I love this blog. The.Best.
Posted by: Stephanie Howell | 01/09/2014 at 12:12 AM